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    Sabrina
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    Why does it seem like everyone has moved on after divorce? Whether it be dating or already in a good relationship. I feel like I’ve had plenty of time to process – it’s been 2 years – but I just can’t go on a successful date. It’s like I can’t just be myself. I’m so awkward and I misread signals. All of my friends are in relationships and I feel like such a failure, so alone.
    Thanks for reading this. I know it wasn’t really a “question” but I needed to get it off my chest to people that have possibly been in my shoes.

    #736
    shadesofgreen
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    It’s easy to feel like you’re the only one. But tons of people can relate to this. Dating is hard and many people hate it. Once you find the right person, conversation will come easily and you should feel at ease.

    #737
    Penny07
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    Vent away girl. We’ve all felt that way.

    #738
    nothankyou
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    I think your best bet is to not try to date. Its clear you’re feeling sorry for yourself and you need to work on your own development a while to get yourself in a more confident and comfortable with yourself place. Let the right person fall into your lap. It usually happens that way anyway.

    #739
    AshleyKeaton
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    Agreed with PP ^ This is the perfect time to do some soul
    searching!

    #740
    Sariah
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    Sounds like you’re trying to be someone you’re not. Awkward is cool these days embrace it.

    #741

    Putting yourself out there is terrifying! You’re not alone!

    #742
    cakeanddicecream
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    It will happen for you. Keep faith!

    #743
    Cynthia001
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    Trying too hard? I think your desperation to be in a relationship is projecting in a way that probably turns people off? Relax a little? Drink a little more wine on your date? Ha!

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